[di] Expose a detached MeterProviderBuilder extension on IServiceCollection which may modify services

[CodeBlanch]

Relates to #4508

Changes

• Adds an overload to the IServiceCollection.ConfigureOpenTelemetryMeterProvider extension which doesn't require IServiceProvider and allows for IServiceCollection modification.

Public API Changes

namespace OpenTelemetry.Trace
{
   public static class OpenTelemetryDependencyInjectionMetricsServiceCollectionExtensions
   {
+     public static IServiceCollection ConfigureOpenTelemetryMeterProvider(this IServiceCollection services, Action<MeterProviderBuilder> configure) {}
   }
}

Merge requirement checklist

• CONTRIBUTING guidelines followed (nullable enabled, static analysis, etc.)
• Unit tests added/updated
• Appropriate CHANGELOG.md files updated for non-trivial changes
• Changes in public API reviewed (if applicable)

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #4517 (4283bb0) into main (e85bd93) will increase coverage by 0.11%.
The diff coverage is 98.11%.

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   85.20%   85.32%   +0.11%     
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  Files         318      319       +1     
  Lines       12620    12634      +14     
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+ Hits        10753    10780      +27     
+ Misses       1867     1854      -13     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...encyInjectionTracingServiceCollectionExtensions.cs	100.00% <ø> (ø)
...s/Metrics/MeterProviderServiceCollectionBuilder.cs	96.66% <96.66%> (ø)
...encyInjectionMetricsServiceCollectionExtensions.cs	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
...emetry/Metrics/Builder/MeterProviderBuilderBase.cs	97.22% <100.00%> (+2.57%)	⬆️
...lemetry/Trace/Builder/TracerProviderBuilderBase.cs	98.07% <100.00%> (+26.07%)	⬆️

... and 2 files with indirect coverage changes