fix: can use uv or pdm to run hacking

[yihong0618]

This path do these things:

• add uv supportd for hacking
• add pdm support for hacking
• add types-psutil in requirements for easy hacking
• add uv lock and pdm lock
• ruff all files
• metion it in README

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 51.05%. Comparing base (04ec09b) to head (a02de34).
Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

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[wey-gu]

Thanks! i'll fix security ci from my side in separate pr!