Skip FOR...UPDATE Clause in Warming Reads Queries

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Description

We are addressing the bug involving SELECT...FOR UPDATE queries in warming reads which resulted in errors such as
Error 1290: The MySQL server is running with the --read-only option so it cannot execute this statement by removing the locks related to the "FOR UPDATE" clause in the warming read queries

We tested this change at HubSpot on Vitess v22 and request a backport to that version for us to use

Related Issue(s)

Fixes #19059

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AI Disclosure

I wrote the primary change in routes.go. Claude Code was used in creating the tests. I reviewed all Claude-generated test code.

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📝 Documentation updates detected!

New suggestion: Document warming reads feature and SELECT...FOR UPDATE exclusion