Silence `ECONNRESET` on `stop`

[hasezoey]

It seems like on .stop after the shutdown command it may be possible that a ECONNRESET Error happens instead of the connection being closed, similar to the already ignored connection 1 to 127.0.0.1:41485 closed message pre mongodb 4.2.

This has been originally reported on discord, where the user notes that this might only happen on replset members, but not single instances.

Example Error:

Error: read ECONNRESET
        at TCP.onStreamRead (node:internal/stream_base_commons:216:20) {
      errno: -4077,
      code: 'ECONNRESET',
      syscall: 'read'
    }

      at node_modules/mongodb-memory-server-core/src/util/MongoInstance.ts:469:23
      at MongoMemoryServer.stop (node_modules/mongodb-memory-server-core/src/MongoMemoryServer.ts:593:5)
          at async Promise.all (index 0)
      at MongoMemoryReplSet.stop (node_modules/mongodb-memory-server-core/src/MongoMemoryReplSet.ts:546:33)

(MMS 10.1.2, binary 7.0.14, windows)

[nichiporenko]

The same issue happens for me as well
(MMS 10.1.3, binary 7.0.14, Windows)

Error: read ECONNRESET
        at TCP.onStreamRead (node:internal/stream_base_commons:217:20) {
      errno: -4077,
      code: 'ECONNRESET',
      syscall: 'read'
    }

at node_modules/mongodb-memory-server-core/src/util/MongoInstance.ts:469:23
      at MongoMemoryServer.stop (node_modules/mongodb-memory-server-core/src/MongoMemoryServer.ts:593:5)
          at async Promise.all (index 0)
      at MongoMemoryReplSet.stop (node_modules/mongodb-memory-server-core/src/MongoMemoryReplSet.ts:546:33)

[Solarisbf]

The same issue happens for me as well
(MMS 10.1.4, Windows 11)

    at Connection.onSocketError (C:\_works\xxxxx\node_modules\mongodb\src\cmap\connection.ts:308:18)
    at Socket.emit (node:events:530:35)
    at Socket.emit (node:domain:489:12)
    at emitErrorNT (node:internal/streams/destroy:170:8)
    at emitErrorCloseNT (node:internal/streams/destroy:129:3)
    at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:90:21) {
  errorLabelSet: Set(0) {},
  beforeHandshake: false,
  [cause]: Error: read ECONNRESET
      at TCP.onStreamRead (node:internal/stream_base_commons:216:20) {
    errno: -4077,
    code: 'ECONNRESET',
    syscall: 'read'
  }
}