fix(gitlab): skip automerge retry when merge_when_pipeline_succeeds already set

[philippe-granet]

Avoid unnecessary retry loops when merge_when_pipeline_succeeds is already enabled on a merge request.
This prevents wasting ~15 seconds per MR when reattempting platform automerge on MRs with failed pipelines.

See #39978

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