Upgrade cuco version to include murmurhash performance fix

[PointKernel]

Description

This PR upgrades the cuco version to incorporate a performance improvement related to MurmurHash: NVIDIA/cuCollections#701.

Checklist

• I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• New or existing tests cover these changes.
• The documentation is up to date with these changes.
• The cmake-format.json is up to date with these changes.
• I have added new files under rapids-cmake/
  • I have added include guards (include_guard(GLOBAL))
  • I have added the associated docs/ rst file and update the api.rst

[PointKernel]

This PR is ready for review, as there are only two commits which are unrelated to the RAPIDS use case between this new commit and the existing one in rapids-cmake.

This PR resolves rapidsai/cudf#18475, as the performance fix has been validated to be effective through libcudf benchmarks:

# groupby_max_cardinality

## [0] Quadro RTX 8000

|  T  |  num_aggregations  |  cardinality  |   Ref Time |   Ref Noise |   Cmp Time |   Cmp Noise |          Diff |   %Diff |  Status  |
|-----|--------------------|---------------|------------|-------------|------------|-------------|---------------|---------|----------|
| I32 |         1          |      10       |  12.339 ms |       0.72% |   2.146 ms |       3.34% | -10192.902 us | -82.61% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |      20       |  12.724 ms |       0.31% |   2.189 ms |       0.38% | -10535.398 us | -82.80% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |      50       |  13.643 ms |       0.18% |   2.539 ms |       0.50% | -11104.700 us | -81.39% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |      100      |  14.361 ms |       0.18% |   2.742 ms |       0.43% | -11618.762 us | -80.91% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |     1000      |   8.897 ms |       0.67% |   2.357 ms |       0.58% |  -6540.089 us | -73.51% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |     10000     |  10.854 ms |       0.21% |   2.404 ms |       0.42% |  -8449.142 us | -77.85% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |    100000     |  13.862 ms |       0.18% |   4.079 ms |       0.19% |  -9783.226 us | -70.58% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |    1000000    |  15.522 ms |       0.18% |   6.450 ms |       0.09% |  -9072.283 us | -58.45% |   FAST   |
| I32 |         1          |   10000000    |  16.778 ms |       0.16% |   7.904 ms |       0.09% |  -8874.460 us | -52.89% |   FAST   |

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/merge