test: implement a way to regularly test `abort` behaviour on all platform

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• Version: *
• Platform: *
• Subsystem: process,test

Since testing abort() and --abort-on-uncaught-exception generate core-dump that take allot of storage they have been moved to test/abort/ and are not regularly tested on the full repertoire of platforms that we support.

/cc @nodejs/testing @nodejs/build

[refack]

Recently we had at least 3 cases of bit-rot on 3 different platforms
Ref: alpine@docker — #13985 (comment)
Ref: macOS — #13527
Ref: Windows — #13947

[refack]

One suggestion that came up was to programmatically disable the creation of core-dumps (for all the tests of for some suites). Or alternatively to implement a way to delete the core-dump from within the test a la common.refreshTmpDir().