Condition of UniqueTogetherValidator can be read-only

[ticosax]

Description

We can't always expect to find the value of the unique condition in the serializer if the field is read-only.

The proposed solution is to fallback on instance's value.

[ticosax]

Looks like, it would fix #9756
(github was degraded at time of submission, I couldn't access to the list of issues)

[browniebroke]

Hey @auvipy, that was a bit (too) fast, wasn't it? This PR was merged very quickly compared to our usual turnaround and I feel like it didn't give a chance to other maintainers to review it properly. I want us to be really cautious about changing things, espacially around validation where we've caused a few regressions in the not so distant past... I don't mind merging a PR quickly for trivial things (like a typo) but in this case I would have liked us to wait for another approval.

PS: I think I'm ok about the code in this specific instance, but that's more about the process

[auvipy]

yeah, I was feeling like that, just after merging it. actually I did it after getting, the confirmation from the issue comment. but from the next time I will wait atleast 72 hours or more for sufficient time to get multiple review. sorry for this time and thanks for raising it explicitly.

[peterthomassen]

I'm also OK with the code in this PR, but second the process concerns.

I think a 72-hour deadline is no appropriate, given holidays and other things. When requesting a review from other team members, the best course of action would be to wait for an actual review and approval from the team.

In my view, we should usually have 4 eyes from the team review before merging.