[SPARK-46680][BUILD] Upgrade Apache commons-pool2 to 2.12.0

[LuciferYang]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This pr aims to upgrade Apache commons-pool2 from 2.11.1 to 2.12.0.

Why are the changes needed?

The new version bring some bug fix like:

• POOL-401: Ensure that capacity freed by invalidateObject is available to all keyed pools.
• POOL-391: Ensure capacity freed by clear is made available to GKOP borrowers.
• POOL-402: Check blockWhenExhausted in hasBorrowWaiters
• POOL-405: NullPointerException GenericKeyedObjectPool.invalidateObject(GenericKeyedObjectPool.java:1343)
• POOL-393: Improve BaseGenericObjectPool's JMX Register performance when creating many pools.
• POOL-411: Guard against NPE when deregistering a key at the end of borrow.

The full change we can refer to https://github.com/apache/commons-pool/blob/rel/commons-pool-2.12.0/RELEASE-NOTES.txt

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No

How was this patch tested?

Pass GitHub Actions

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No

[dongjoon-hyun]

Please let me know if this is ready, @LuciferYang . 😄

[LuciferYang]

Thanks @dongjoon-hyun it's ready now ~

[dongjoon-hyun]

+1, LGTM. Thank you, @LuciferYang .
Merged to master.